Wednesday, April 29, 2020

She's Not There : A Book Review

She’s Not There by Jennifer Finney Boylan

Jenny wrote her memoir, She’s Not There, in 2003.  In it, she tells her story of growing up in a loving family as James Boylan, marrying Grace and together having two sons.  At the age of 40, James is unable to continue living as a man and begins his transition to being a woman, Jenny.

Before transitioning James talks with his wife, his mother, and his best friend.

James wife, Grace, is heartbroken to loose her husband, and their family life, with him as a man.  James mother, now in her later years and a conservative Christian woman, wrapped her arms around James and told him, love will prevail. His best friend, Richard, is completely shocked and pledges support.

This is a very sensitive, well-written book of love, kindness and commitment.  I highly recommend it as a great read from Kanata United’s library.